Greeting you in the name of our father, my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over eight months but we know each other over a year, I'm bless to know him and we both on the same path with our life, I adore him and he adore me, I never had a relationship like this before. We talk to each other and not at each other, the respect is there and so is the love, most important we love God and know that we can't do nothing without god, so what's the problem? Well he spend 99 percent working and hours are crazy, I feel sorry for him because he be so tired and never get no rest he work between 8 to 16 hour a day sometime he may get 4 to 5 hours of sleep and than up to start it over again, a person would think is he really working, I have to say yes he is at work . My problem is and I don't want to be selfish is that we don't get to do anything together and I be missing him crazy, because sometimes I only here his voice, for the most part he sleep we do love each other and I know his job his important to him..sometimes I just want to feel important, should I stop being selfish, or keep asking for strength
bymitchyLoveGodon 15 Dec, 2015 12:54
hi dear dont worry your not alone we have the same experience ... i am in a relationship for 4 1/2 years and my boyfriend is in canada.. we are long distance relationship for many years. he works a lot , we dont talk everyday, we just talk once in 2 weeks because he is so busy and after work he immidiately sleep and there is really no time to talk with me, at first its really hurt and there is a time i wanna give up .. i always pray that " if he is really the man for me then give me a lot of patient and understand this kind of situation and if he is not for me i want this to stop immediately and may the Lord will be done" ... my dear this just a test in your relationship, you are so blessed because he is busy in work and not in other girl... it means he so responsible. keep on praying that may the Lord be the center of your relationship and also pray that your boyfriend is also safe at work and ask for his strenght to our God...
i hope this will help you
byAlmawrighton 16 Dec, 2015 14:20
Yes, thank youuuuuuuu for you rely, and I truly understand the test is god work..thank you.
bygoodweedguyon 12 Feb, 2016 11:14
Lesson on mountain: Dont break up
byAlmawrighton 12 Feb, 2016 17:28
Good guy, thank you very much, we are still together and I pray for strength and move the devil out of our relationship, because I know he is a good man...thank we will not break up.
byshaneon 06 Mar, 2016 14:21
Hi guys im in need of advice
25 years of age and i have never felt loved by family or friends im constantly trying to blame myself for people not loving me i even changed my ways but the i try to reach out i get pushed i have prayed to god to maje me understand why im being treated this way i feel lonely empty and i have noone to talk too but god.....pls help
byracheal chandaon 26 Mar, 2016 17:27
I feel lonely too sometimes but I encourage myself that no matter what I might go through am never alone for God always watches over me.so u too dear u might feel lonely but believe me u are never alone.God loves you and whatever is happening in your life its just a phase it will pass
byHorebon 28 Mar, 2016 13:51
Remember Jesus alone can be with us all the time. He is the only one who has said "I will never leave u nor forsake you. He is worthy to be trusted 100 %. Give you relationships to God and aslk Him to decide for u. God bless you !
byAlmawrighton 29 Mar, 2016 06:51
Thank you Rachel and Horeb , I truly agree with you guys, my flesh sometimes take over my mind and my feelings with my relationship it's crazy because deep in my heart I know it's nit another women he really be working every day all day. He don't see himself that it hurting him, his body had change and all.. he be so tired that he falls to sleep talking to people. And are time together is brief because he falls to sleep, the last thing we did together was valentine the night before and all day, he really do work, if you didn't know him you would think otherwise, I know for sure it's nit another women, even though he work all the time he true to me and I know him well.he dictated to his work..his mom try to talk to him his brother try to talk him, he very hard headed. And love us all. He says that it for is plan and future, I miss him is time and emotions with me..I know God is the source of my life..you know let me know if I'm wrong or right..it came to me yesterday that maybe I'm focusing on the wrong thing because I ask God to fight this fight and I know he is, the devil playing a big part in this, the devil want me to focus the relationship and not god..he knows god is a jelous god and if I think of the relationship that I ask God to help me with in the first place.i can't focus on and live and trust God to do his work..I know the devil come to destroy, I will not let him win. I will continue to pray ask God for strength. .and you right this to will pass..thank you.
byHorebon 29 Mar, 2016 13:49
I am so proud of u Alma ! Don't worry ! We serve a great God who overcame all the temptations of Satan ! Bible says like this : *[[Hebrews 2:18]] EasyEnglish* The Devil (Godís enemy) tried to make Jesus himself do wrong things. But Jesus did not do anything wrong because he never stopped obeying God. So now, he can help us not to do wrong things. Cheer up ! Be strong ! U also will overcome thru Christ ! Have a great time !
byHorebon 29 Mar, 2016 14:05
U have a great God who can understand all ur weaknesses and failures and doubts. Just thank God for all He had done till now in ur life ! Bible says : *[[Heb 4:15]] NET* For we do not have a high priest incapable of sympathizing with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin. *[[Heb 4:16]] NET* Therefore let us confidently approach the throne of grace to receive mercy and find grace whenever we need help. May God comfort u today theru His Words!