Should I marry an unfaithful woman in courtship?
byBenBijion 09 Apr, 2018 23:51
Good day brethren in Christ, I have been in a relationship with a lady that lasted for so many years. In all these years I have been faithful and truthful to her and we have never had sex in the relationship . I didn't date any other girl, but I just realize that in all these years, she has dated more than 30 men and had slept with more than 10 men. I wanted to quit but she keeps begging me for almost 3months now and she keeps praying and fasting for God to fix our relationship. Pls what should I do, I really need help. Thank you.
byJoeon 14 Apr, 2018 03:19
Why haven't you gotten married yet? Have you found out if she is a real believer or just using words she has heard from others. You need to talk to her friends to find out where her heart is in your relationship. Talk to an elder in your church. To repenent means not to revisit that sin. You may need to move on. God will find your mate if you are open to his leading. Go with God.
byBenBijion 14 Apr, 2018 18:25
@Joe, thanks for the reply. The reason why I didn't get married yet, is because I waited for her to be through with first degree, which she did. But that's where she got the grounds to live that kind of life. I appreciate your reply, I know God is forever Faithful and will make away for me.
byBpcomo56on 15 Apr, 2018 19:54
Prayer is the best in most cases. But since you have been patient, nice and understanding she's totally taking advantage of you and you're godly sense. Be nice and go your own way abruptly but go in God's words and explain to her that she can't be trusted as she had already come between you and her. You're a security blanket, let her go today brother. God's blessings to you!
byBenBijion 17 Apr, 2018 09:01
@Bpcomo, I appreciate ur concern, TNQ! I thank God, that now I know, it's better to have a jeopardized relationship than to have a broken marriage. I will keep on praying, for all things worketh together for good to them that love God and to them that are called according to His purpose.
byKristopheron 24 Apr, 2018 01:01
My beloved brother in Christ... if you are asking go with worldly answer means i tell no just leave her and left that place and the same time bible says about forgiveness.. THE FORM OF FORGIVENESS IS NOT ONLY FORGIVE UNLESS YOU FORGET, So if you believe that much of forget sense means God gives inner peace.otherwise better leave her. Choose wise it's your life .
byVijay Pushkinon 13 May, 2018 09:24
The answer is obvious. No you SHOULD NOT MARRY HER. Bible clearly tells us to stay away from promiscuous women. Every second you're talking to her is like degrading yourself and your manhood.
Pray to God for a virgin and no there's nothing wrong in that, even if it's 2018. Don't ever compromise on that. It's better to roam in an empty desert for your rest of your life than to get married to a promiscuous women.
Bible strongly condemns sex outside of marriage. *[[1Co 6:18]] KJV* Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
And man, even I would advice worldly people to stay away from a women with 10+ count. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
bystephoton 14 May, 2018 18:39
Pray God to give you the right woman,so long as you are a believer,keep on praying and never give up God will open the doors for you.
byBenBijion 19 May, 2018 13:02
@Kristopha, @Vijah and @Step...I appreciate you all. That's what Christianity is all about. To bear one another's burden. I still trust God to make a way. Because HIS word is settled in Heaven forever, and as a child of God, am not permitted to go for the wrong choice but I will surely have an expected end in Jesus name amen.