I am hoping that there's someone out there that can give me advice.
I'm a 26 year old male (2018)
I met this woman a few years ago 2012, In 2012 I wanted to meet someone new and far from where I live, just someone new, she appeared after talking to her for sometime, I noticed that she lived so close to me and it was so strange because that wasn't the idea, it changed nothing at all. Few years (2015) down the line, I told her how I feel and we dated, it was amazing but due to a huge misunderstanding something happened shortly after that, and things never got back to how it was, in January of 2016 we stopped talking at all, I was torn, devasted I cant even describe how horrible I felt.
April of that year we started talking again and we were going solid as friends, I've always been there for her, tried my best to always make her comfortable, I met her family and everything, we could go on and on about what I was feeling for that year until now, the one thing that has not changed one bit is how i feel towards her. I've been praying to God for miricles to happen, for God to allow us to give it one more chance at a relationship, but I fear its to late because there might be someone else.
I just feel that my energy and efforts has all been for nothing, I feel depressed and all I want to do is sleep and lock myself from the world, my heart hurts in a million places.
I don't know what to do anymore, I pray to God all the time, hoping for something God to come.
It was the misunderstanding in 2015 that brought me closer to God.
I fear my faith decreasing...
byGeniuson 14 Jul, 2018 10:04
J. I felt especially moved to reply to your post,I have been where you are my friend. I have been through the troubling relationship,even tried to make it work through long distance. Only to find things going south,losing touch and trust,until there was nothing left to save. Followed by heartbreaking pain,emptiness and depression. This lead me to believe that I wasnt meant to find love. That God had other plans for me. Years later I've have finally found a beautiful,kind, faithful angel of a woman to call my own. I never saw it coming. God granted me a miracle in her,that I didn't deserve nor expected! I'm hear to to tell you to keep the faith,stay positive and encouraged,this particular relationship may have been meant as a stepping stone to lead to a better path,or to the right person to complete you,and to keep you happy faithful and strong in this journey called life! When you are in the darkness,sometimes the abscence of light is all the proof we have of light,because darkness could never exist without light. Just as hope and faith could never exist with God. We may not be able to see or feel what's ahead, but never loose sight of the fact that there is always a future,always a brighter day,and joy ahead as long as we endure to the best of our ability! I found love when it was all but a dead principle to me,I know in time the Lord with bless you as I was blessed,be patient and find joy in the little things,before you know it things will happen that will reinvigorate you into a wonderful New day! God bless! G
byJassiton 16 Jul, 2018 00:38
Hello, I have a request. We pray to Lord for all our problem and He helps us. This time my husband is facing problem in his work place. He was taken sabbatical leave and chasing since 2 months to re-join but his boss a female non believer has influenced their senior boss who has to take the decision on his joining but till now has not yet reverted. He is just saying we will advise you soon. Now my husband is losing his patience and because of this we are having financial crisis as since last six months he has not been paid.
byJENon 04 Aug, 2018 10:56
Hey, thank you for your inspiration words, I will try to stay strong every single day and hope something good will happen, some days it's so hard and the next it's easy breezy but I have faith that something good will happen, thank you once again for your words, God bless
byDorcus.kebatlhokileon 09 Aug, 2018 03:49
Am too lost that I feel I cnt keep up. Spiritually nd personally. I cry day and night. Help me out what I ask myself is what have I done wrong in this life that I can't be happy.
byGods Childdon 11 Aug, 2018 09:21
Same is the case with me..I have been suffering from depression since last October...help me out.