I really know that at this very beginning you would never understand God.
But at the end you would come to know how great our God is.
God has many reasons for letting something happen to His very own children.
As loving Father and powerful Creator as He is, He doesn't have to explain the reason why He allows something to happen to His own people.
You know doesn't hate you and your wife, but in other to reveal how great He is; that why He does allow something happen to us.
Remember in the bible when Jesus was walking along, the bible says: "As Jesus was walking along, he saw a man who had been born blind. His disciples asked him, Teacher, whose sin caused him to be born blind? Was it his own or his parents' sin?
Jesus answered, "His blindness has nothing to do with his sins or his parents' sins. He is blind so that God's power might be seen at work in him. John 9:1-3.
So it is the same as your problems, God wants to show you wonderful He is.
Your problem can't end up your life if you could get leap of faith in God.
Just believe me God would show His power over your situations.
Nothing is too hard for Him to do.
Your troubles are just passing away very quickly.
It only needs your faith, your faith would move God to help you in times of your troubles, but not your worries.
Worries and complains don't move God to help us but our FAITH does.
Know that you have a wonderful God.
God is able to do all that is weak.
You have a real hope, so hope, and hope again.
Believe,God is going to take you out of that situation now if you could believe in Him.
If you could believe that He is God, then He would look down on you and save you from every problemes that you have been encountering now in your life.
He is God.
No one tells Him what do, and what not to do.
God will save you.
If you need any prayer tell me i could remember you in prayers.